I have had many encounters with people who are toxic from family members, person in the work place, friendships that lead to toxic emotions and experiences that I have let go of in the past and recent months.
How to spot a toxic person:
They feel the need to control and manipulate a situation, have to get there way.
Jealous of your achievements, this is a red flag you can’t share good news with these persons.
Constant drama, crisis, complaining, screaming, bringing you down, conflicting ideas of what’s really happening, exaggeration of situations.
They choose to become the victim and blame others for there life not going in the direction they choose, self pity, self centred.
Judgments on others, continuous gossping of others, blaming others not taking responsibility for there own life, they never apologize.
Rude and Abussive, verbally or emotionally, insensitive to others, disrespectful to others emotions or opinions.
1: Set healthy boundaries, learn to say no.
2: Create a support system with friends, attract likeminded happy people into your life.
3: Stay away from negative persons, surround yourself with happy thoughts, visions, affirmations.
4: Self awareness, know your surroundings follow your gut instinct.
5: Rise above this, be true to who you are maintain your positive nature.
6: Do not allow anyone to restrict your happiness, live in the moment and follow your heart.
7: Make healthy changes of who you would invite into your space.
8: Rest and focus on the abundance life has to offer, this way you will attract, positive, loving people into your life.
9: Forgive, don’t forget by allowing yourself into the situation to be hurt again, forgiveness means letting go in a healthy way, not going into the same patterns.
10: Be authentic, staying true to oneself.
I would love to hear your feedback on your experiences, have you encountered a lot of toxic people in your workplace or family?
How do you deal with conflict and toxic people?
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